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So I recently wrote a post about going to a sex club. Well there is a great Sex Club in Las Vegas that I highly suggest. It is called the Green Door. When I went I had a really great experience and made some friends!  

One of those friends is Nacho, who is a long time patron of the club. He definently knows his way around this sex club business and even has a podcast inside the Green Door. Make sure you check it out on Youtube.

I got to ask Nacho for some helpful tips for a single male first timer coming to the Green Door. I really think these helpful tips are a must read for anyone thinking of going to a sex club.  

Ideal times to go (or cum :)) to the Green Door: 
Fridays and Saturdays are the best days to go. It doesn't get busy until about midnight. But the recommendation would be to arrive around 10:30pm and walk around to get familiar with the club. 

Advice for a single first timer? 
If you’re a talkative person and not afraid to approach people. Then take that approach and don't be afraid to introduce. 

The longer you can have a conversation without talking about sex, the sexpert feels, have the highest chance on getting lucky. 

If you’re not a talker, that's ok as well. But if you go the quite route, walk around, a lot of times, you'll walk right into an opportunity.

What do you talk about? 
A typical conversation lasts usually around the 5-8 minutes frame. Then after that, you can just be honest. You can say something like “what you’re looking for?” and ask to play.  

Asking is key: 
Once you have had a nice conversation. You will always want to ask before doing. Ask to touch and ask to play - not to have sex. The word “Play” is a gentler word and ultimately a gentler way of asking do you wanna have sex.

Condoms!:
Don’t forget to bring condoms, you never know what will happen. So it’s best to be prepared.

Remember to be kind to yourself... and book a trip to the Green Door in LV! 

Photo Cred: The Green Door

I often have clients ask me, "Katelyn how can I discover more of my sexuality?" - without the possible burden of signing up for a monthly service, getting into something that might be over my head, or hunting out a local "rub n tug" salon - which is possibly breaking the law in most states.

My answer... "Go to a sex club". Where this could be a little intimating for some, I think, with the right guidance - it could be just what you need!

If you found yourself growing up in an area where sex was suppressed and not talked about. You can grow up feeling that your life isn't up to its fullest potential, thinking your relationship - just isn't up to par. Or you long for something more. A sex club can really open your eyes to the world of sex and then intern you get to find out "Hey, I might want to try that!". 

Some of my clients have asked me "What did you feel when you were there?". I respond with "I felt understood!". Just like with anything in this world - these things should be done in moderation, but it was an experience I suggest everyone that lived a suppressed life and feels the need for more, should visit a sex club. And of course everyone will experience something different but I hope your experience was as good as mine! Another tip would be do go with an open mind, and no expectations. 

Sex is such a freeing experience and when people are doing it all around you all at once... that feeling is pretty liberating. Kind of like you finally cracked the code of that box you were put in growing up. The unspoken box of shame.

We are adults now that box is no longer needed to control us. We can make those decisions ourselves and leave the judgment of everyone else to the way side. Because those peoples opinion doesn't matter! 

Say it out loud: "People's opinion's of me doesn't matter!" 

I hope this helps your journey, but if you want to know more, contact me!! I am happy to help you in your journey to self discovery. 

I LOVE YOU! 

Remember to be kind to yourself... and book your trip to a sex club!! 
Katelyn 

Photo Cred: Liam McGarry

Hi everyone!

I have had clients recently ask me about how to spice things up! One way to do this would be to bring in another partner can really create a lot of spice and creates mystery which really gets the mind desiring your partner. 

So where do you start?! Well here are a few ways to go about getting a third partner: 
 

• One way would be a swingers club. If you are a local in Utah the majority of those "public" clubs would be with strip clubs. You could also look into joining unless a swingers community. Within those communities they would have more private house parties, which can be a little more intimate. 
• Another way is the infamous Tinder app (yes, I said it!). Some people have had success with Tinder on the three way game. If you do turn to Tinder, some advice would be when writing your bio, be straight forward and let your intentions be known.
• The last way that you may have better luck with would be on a hook up site. Where Tinder can be used as a hook up app it is also meant for a dating, so you could get in the dating weeds. Here are some hook up sites/apps that come highly recommended:  
  • XMatch 
  • FriendFinder-X 
  • Adult Friend Finder 
  • Feeld 

I hope these tips help on your journey to find a third! 😉

Be kind to yourself and get it on!! 

Photo credit: Dainis Graveris