 So I recently wrote a post about going to a sex club. Well there is a great Sex Club in Las Vegas that I highly suggest. It is called the Green Door. When I went I had a really great experience and made some friends!
One of those friends is Nacho, who is a long time patron of the club. He definently knows his way around this sex club business and even has a podcast inside the Green Door. Make sure you check it out on Youtube. I got to ask Nacho for some helpful tips for a single male first timer coming to the Green Door. I really think these helpful tips are a must read for anyone thinking of going to a sex club. Ideal times to go (or cum :)) to the Green Door: Fridays and Saturdays are the best days to go. It doesn't get busy until about midnight. But the recommendation would be to arrive around 10:30pm and walk around to get familiar with the club. Advice for a single first timer? If you’re a talkative person and not afraid to approach people. Then take that approach and don't be afraid to introduce. The longer you can have a conversation without talking about sex, the sexpert feels, have the highest chance on getting lucky. If you’re not a talker, that's ok as well. But if you go the quite route, walk around, a lot of times, you'll walk right into an opportunity. What do you talk about? A typical conversation lasts usually around the 5-8 minutes frame. Then after that, you can just be honest. You can say something like “what you’re looking for?” and ask to play. Asking is key: Once you have had a nice conversation. You will always want to ask before doing. Ask to touch and ask to play - not to have sex. The word “Play” is a gentler word and ultimately a gentler way of asking do you wanna have sex. Condoms!: Don’t forget to bring condoms, you never know what will happen. So it’s best to be prepared. Remember to be kind to yourself... and book a trip to the Green Door in LV! Photo Cred: The Green Door
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I have a lot of people ask me, “How can I get in the mood more often?”. My answer is if you’re talking about sex often, it’s going to be on the mind a lot more. But some of us don’t have a lot of people to talk to about sex. So what’s the remedy? Well, reading about sex is just as good as talking about it!
Here is a list I came up with of some erotica books and other media that come highly recommend! Check it out! Self-Help and Self-Awareness Books:
Women Empowering Books:
Erotic Humor:
Erotic Books for Women:
Erotic Books for Men:
Erotic Books for LGBT:
Dark Erotica:
Erotic Podcast:
I hope this list has sparked something inside and take a risk! Remember to be kind to yourself and get it on! Katelyn |
AuthorAs a clinical sexuality coach, Katelyn works with individuals and couples to help them discover their best sex lives. Archives
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