Hi everyone! Let's talk about lube!
This is my favorite lube by far! It's called Good Clean Love good clean, it is water-based lube. It's also organic and safe for toys!
Water-based lube is great because you don't need to keep reapplying the lube, you just need to have some water nearby and splash some water when it starts to get dry.
There are so many bad lubes out there that have side effects after you use them. Good Clean Love is a safe choice because it's not going to through your PH balance off. For women, our vaginas are so sensitive to any outside chemical, This lube is a safe choice because it won't through your PH balance off.
You can see when I put some on my hands, it’s not sticky at all it is very very silky, slippery, and wet. When it starts to get dry it’s not sticky at all just feels like a smooth surface. And once it starts to get dry just reactivated with the water! I highly recommend this lube!
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Hi everyone! Let's talk about the Blush, Lush - Iris - Air Pulse Clitoral Stimulator & G-Spot Thruster. This is one of my favorite vibrators by far! It was recently on Buzz Feed as one of the top vibrators out right now.
Let's first talk about the purpose of a dual vibrator. It has so many different functionalities which is going to give you better stimulation. With this vibrator, it has a thrusting shaft with seven different settings. It also has an air pulsator that goes directly onto the clitoris, for maximum stimulation.
How to use it, you wanna make sure it’s fully charged, and there a magnetic charger on the back of the toy. How you turn it on, there are two buttons on the front of the toy. The top is for the air pulsator and the bottom is for the thrusting vibe. Here is one of the setting, I will turn it on for you. You can see that it’s kind of wiggling up and down, also take a listen to the noise. You can just keep on clicking the button for different speeds and a few of the speeds also warm. One thing to note is that it has some noise to it with the thrusting motor.
Let's talk about the air pulsation feature. So when you go ahead and turn it on it’s going to give you some different types of air pulsations kind of like a sucking feeling, for more intensity keep clicking the button. In the video, you can hear the noise and see with a post-it note, how the vibration works. It does kind of give you the feeling of someone giving you oral sex.
The texture and the material of this is all silicone 100% so it is body safe it’s really soft and squishy to the touch.
What type of lube you would use for a silicone toy is going to be water-based or oil-based lube you could use coconut oil that’s a really great alternative as well. DO NOT USE silicone lube with a silicone toy because it breaks down the material.
Let’s talk about washing your toy you wanna make sure that you were washing your toy before and after your sessions. It’s so simple to wash your toy and so important! All you have to do is clean it with soap and warm water and let it air dry put it back on the charger and then you’re ready to go!
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Hi everyone! Let's talk about the Screaming O Jackits Throttle Stroker.
It is a male stroking device, perfect for solo sessions and to prevent bottoming out during intercourse.
How works is really simple, just squirt some of your favorite lube inside the ring and stretch over it in an erect penis. The stroker does have some grip on the outside for your hands to have some grip. This is to prevent slippage.
The material it is made of is from SEBS which is stretchy and soft to the touch. SEBS is a body-safe material that is found in most dental offices, also used in medical devices and in most toothbrushes. How you wash your toy will be with warm water and soap and pat dry with a lint-free towel. Also for storage, dust was in cornstarch to make sure your toy is fresh. When you open your toy you will notice that it will already be dusted with cornstarch.
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I have had clients recently ask me about how to spice things up! One way to do this would be to bring in another partner can really create a lot of spice and creates mystery which really gets the mind desiring your partner.
So where do you start?! Well here are a few ways to go about getting a third partner:
I hope these tips help on your journey to find a third! 😉
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Hi everyone!! Let's talk about the Pipe Dream PDX Elite Vibrating Silicone Stimulator.
The purpose of a vibrating simulator is going to be for a male solo session.
How it works is pretty simple, you simply put the penis in the sleeve and use it as you stroke. You’re able to grasp a little bit tighter or looser depending on how you like it. It also has a vibrating bullet inside but it doesn’t come with batteries included so make sure you have some AAA batteries on hand.
To turn it on is also pretty simple, you click the button to turn it on and click the button to turn it off. I have turned it on in the video so you can check out the sound. The vibrator will intensify the session with the vibrating head, this is going to increase the sensation on the frenulum of the penis. So you know where the frenulum is located right at the base of the head of the penis. The material of this is toy is silicone which is a body save flexible material silicone is a waterproof material but the vibe inside is not so stay away from water when it comes to the vibrator.
There’s a lot that actually comes with this toy first one been self and the vibrator batteries, it also comes with a water-based lube and it also comes with three different sized cock rings. They are silicone but they’re not as stretchy as other rings I have shown you. They're a little bit stiffer so make sure and if they are too tight go ahead and abort the mission. You don’t want these to hurt at all. Cock rings should give some pressure but shouldn’t be too tight, as it can damage the penis.
Let's talk about washing your toy, which is so important. You can use the toy cleaner the toy comes with and warm water or soap and warm water and let air dry.
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Hi there! Let's talk about the Screaming O Jackits Stroker Pad.
The purpose of a stroker pad is a male masturbation device. This is going to take masturbation to a whole new level! How it works is simple you’ll notice ridges for your fingers to grasp onto on one side but also on the other side there’s going to be some ridges for maximum penis stimulation! All you have to do is put it in your hand, put some lube on the top and go to town! It has a no-slip grip on the back so you can maintain control with your session.
This pad is pretty awesome, it flexes and bends, it's very very soft, and you can fold it depending on what size you. The possibilities are endless! The stroker pad is made from SEBS material which is actually safer than PVC which is found in most sex toys. SEBS can actually be found in toothbrushes dental offices and medical, so it is a body-safe choice when it comes to sex toys! SEBS is a super stretchy material, it’s really soft and has a velvet feel.
For lube, you will want to use water-based lube or oil-based lube. How do you wash your pad will be with water and soap, pat dry with a lint-free towel, and dust with some cornstarch to keep it fresh. When you open your toy you will notice some dust, that is the corn starch that is going to ensure the product is fresh for you.
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Hi everyone, let's talk to you about Kegel balls!
The purpose of Kegel balls AKA Ben Wa balls is used to strengthen the vaginal walls. This is going to give you longer, stronger orgasms, and will help with incontinence. How it works is pretty simple, you just go ahead and insert them into the vagina (like you to a tampon) with a little bit of lube.
How long you keep them in vary really. You wanna make sure that you will get used to it first before you go out in public with the balls inside. You will wanna go ahead and put them in while you're doing things around the house and then you can venture out into public (when you know that you’re not gonna be walking like a penguin).
How these work, is actually weighted beads inside the kegel balls. You can hear something inside while you are watching the video. There are little gauges on the outside of the ball where you will be able to take the balls out and put them into the saddle and they will sit and hold really nicely in the saddle. One of the balls has a string, you can pop it out of the saddle, and that is the side you would be at the base or the opening of the vagina so the string can hang out. When you first start using kegel balls, you will just use the one with the string outside of the saddle. You will insert the loose ball with the string like you do a tampon. When you get used to it and a little bit stronger, you can go ahead and insert both of the balls in the saddle with the string hanging out of the vagina.
How do they feel? They do feel like a tampon, you can’t really feel them but with the balls with the weight inside with your natural movement, it can actually be pleasurable. Even though this is pleasurable, your muscles are working.
Washing: Make sure you wash the balls with soap and warm water before and after use.
There are so many Ben Wa balls or Kegel balls, this one is the LELO brand, called the LELO LUNA Beads Noir. They are hypoallergenic, all-natural material, and body-safe.
These LELO balls are a little bit smaller than your average kegel ball, which is really great for those that have not bear a child, or if you are new to kegel balls these will be a great option for you! Inside your LELO box, you will get personal lubricant, the kegel two kegel balls, a lovely bag to put everything in. And a warranty card, that you’ll be able to register for a one-year warranty. So if anything goes wrong with your beads you can get them fully replaced for free within the first year. It also has a 10-year guarantee in the event something wrong with the product after one year to 10 years, you will get your product replaced for 50% off.
I highly suggest all women should have a Kegel exercise kit. Because all women deserve stronger longer orgasms, having a good strong pelvic floor, and a tight vagina!! It’s really a no-brainer here!!
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Hi everyone! Let’s talk about getting in the mood!!
As a sexuality coach, I’ve had so many of my clients constantly ask "how can I get more in the mood? How does that happen?" How you can get more in the mood, is by having sex on the brain a lot more! One way to do that is to be talking about sex with your partner or friends. But sex is really taboo and it’s hard to talk about.
So I created a product to get sex more on the brain. It's a fun way for you and your partner to show "hey I’m interested".
The first item I created is the "tonight pillow" simply put this somewhere where your partner sees it. One side says tonight and the other side says not tonight. You can put this anywhere around your house that your partner will see.
I’ve also created a little bit more risky pillow, it says on one side "be naked when I get home" and the other side says " I’ll be naked when you get home". It's a really fun way to show your partner you’re in the mood!
Now think about this concept, and how you would react when you see this in the morning before you go to work, it’s gonna give you a lot of anticipation, a lot of mystery. It’s also just really fun and silly (which we all need a laugh). :)
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As a clinical sexuality coach, Katelyn works with individuals and couples to help them discover their best sex lives.