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I have been curating relationship questions for almost the last 6 months. The reasoning is to really dive deep when it comes to communication within a relationship.

I know personally, for me I tend to over communicate with people and so when it comes to really getting a sense of how someone is really feeling... for me there aren't ever enough questions!!! I want to know everything!! LOL I'd like to thinks it's because I am inquisitive... 

So anyway back on to the relationship questions! I would recommend playing/asking these form of relationship questions, when you have been seeing your partner for at least few months. Not necessarily to be played/asked with a young fresh relationship - especially if one of you hasn't fully gotten in tune with their feelings yet (fella's I'm not picking on you but yeah the fella's are usually the ones that we have to be slow with these questions).

Reason why you would want to wait to ask these questions, is it can be a bit too deep when you really have only dipped your toe into the water of the relationship and not quite sure if you are ready to jump fully in and if you are ready to share all the feelings, just yet! LOL 

So here we go!

1. If you had a superpower what would it be? Teleport, invisible, read minds, see the future 
2. When are you the happiest? 
3. What do think about the idea of “the one”?
4. What’s something you wanted in the past but you don’t anymore? 
5. What something people do in relationships that you don’t want to do in your next relationship? 
6. On a scale from 0-10 how afraid are you of being hurt? 
7. What do you need to improve, learn, or stop doing in order to potentially have a successful romantic relationship? 
8. What is your most toxic trait? 
9. How has fear and Insecurity impacted your past decisions or actions in a romantic relationship? 

Deeper questions: 

1. What do you think connects us? 
2. What are you hesitant to tell me? 
3. What don’t you understand about me? 

Been in a relationship for a while? Here are some questions you can ask if you are in a current long term relationship: 

1. What is the hardest part of our relationship right now? 
2. How do you need to be shown love? 
3. What are the greatest fears tied to our relationship? 
4. Do you think I understand you most of the time? 

I hope you can uncover some positive feedback, nothing but love here!

​Remember to be kind to yourself and your partner... and get it on! 
Katelyn 

Photo Cred: Simone Secci

I stumbled upon an article from CNN where it stated a lot of people are marrying their partners for all the "right" reasons, expect one... Sexual attraction. I found this fascinating. People are marrying their partners because they will make an amazing parent or they are a great best friend and their families and friends get along. 

But as depicted in this article sex is the one thing that disguises a romantic relationship from a platonic one. In this article they describe sex as "relationship glue" and I couldn't agree more!

Check out the CNN article here: https://www.cnn.com/2022/11/08/health/sexual-attraction-importance-in-partner-wellness/index.html

Remember to be kind to yourself and get it on! 
​Katelyn 

Photo cred: CNN
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Time to fight for your rights and have great sex!