Are you trying to find love to keep you warm this fall? Well, I can help!
Being cooped up indoors can put us into a reclusive state, and when it comes to dating... that's the opposite of what should be happening!
If you're in the dating scene, it can be countless matches, endless first dates, and meaningless small talk. So how do you break the cycle? How can you find love?! Well, if you're reading this, you are on the right path to get some help in the dating game. And you know what good for you in taking charge!
Whether you're a serial dater, a hopeless romantic, or have never been kissed, here are three tips for you!
1. Make a list and check it twice - Santa is coming a little early this year!
The first tip is to know what you want in a relationship and make a list. The list should be what traits and characteristics you want in a person that you could potentially date. Number each item from most important to least important. See the example below. Now, you're asking why you aren't making a list of the things you don't want? Well, it's simple really, we don't want to focus on the negative! Also, try as hard as possible to put your physical requirements at the bottom of the list.
1. Fun Personality likes to laugh
2. Accepting of my kids (or fur babies)
3. Communicates honestly
4. Understanding of feelings
5. Kissable wants to kiss and knows how
6. Active, go to the gym, or go on bike rides
7. Enjoys having people over
8. Dancing going to dance class
9. Cleanly likes to be tidy
10. Great smile
Once you write your list, stick with it. If you are talking to someone and they haven't hit your numbers on your list, move on!
2. Set Boundaries
A fantastic article by Mind Body Green states that no boundaries = little self-esteem, which I totally agree with! Read this article for "6 steps to set good boundaries".
3. Get a real like Hitch... a Love Coach!
If you haven't seen the movie Hitch with Will Smith, stop everything you are doing and go watch it, please! So a Love Coach's purpose is to help you gain the self-esteem that you are worthy of love! And set you on the right path for a great relationship giving you tools and resources to approach the right people for you. As a Love Coach, I can help build up your confidence and teach you how to talk to someone you are interested in. And if you need help with your dating profile, I help with that too!
I am offering $50 off all Coaching Packages this fall. Get this exclusive offer by using code FALL50 at check out!
As a clinical sexuality coach, Katelyn works with individuals and couples to help them discover their best sex lives.