I often have clients ask me, "Katelyn how can I discover more of my sexuality?" - without the possible burden of signing up for a monthly service, getting into something that might be over my head, or hunting out a local "rub n tug" salon - which is possibly breaking the law in most states.
My answer... "Go to a sex club". Where this could be a little intimating for some, I think, with the right guidance - it could be just what you need!
If you found yourself growing up in an area where sex was suppressed and not talked about. You can grow up feeling that your life isn't up to its fullest potential, thinking your relationship - just isn't up to par. Or you long for something more. A sex club can really open your eyes to the world of sex and then intern you get to find out "Hey, I might want to try that!".
Some of my clients have asked me "What did you feel when you were there?". I respond with "I felt understood!". Just like with anything in this world - these things should be done in moderation, but it was an experience I suggest everyone that lived a suppressed life and feels the need for more, should visit a sex club. And of course everyone will experience something different but I hope your experience was as good as mine! Another tip would be do go with an open mind, and no expectations.
Sex is such a freeing experience and when people are doing it all around you all at once... that feeling is pretty liberating. Kind of like you finally cracked the code of that box you were put in growing up. The unspoken box of shame.
We are adults now that box is no longer needed to control us. We can make those decisions ourselves and leave the judgment of everyone else to the way side. Because those peoples opinion doesn't matter!
Say it out loud: "People's opinion's of me doesn't matter!"
I hope this helps your journey, but if you want to know more, contact me!! I am happy to help you in your journey to self discovery.
I LOVE YOU!
Remember to be kind to yourself... and book your trip to a sex club!!
Photo Cred: Liam McGarry
Let's talk about Royal! I was on Royal's website and I had to get their taster condom pack! They have a taster/tester kit of three different style condoms and three of each.
It comes with a natural condom, strawberry flavor and a chocolate flavor. These also have pH balance lube inside, so it is body safe!
The strawberry totally smells like strawberry and the chocolate smells like a box of chocolates. So if any of those are your favorite, I highly suggest you get some of them!
I'm always leery of flavored condoms but since these are a natural vegan material, they are safe and safe for your body, so definitely check them out.
I have partnered with Royal and they are giving a 15% off your entire first order!! Use the link below or in my bio and get some flavored condoms to switch it up a bit and have a great time.
Remember to be kind to yourself and get it on!!
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I have had clients recently ask me about how to spice things up! One way to do this would be to bring in another partner can really create a lot of spice and creates mystery which really gets the mind desiring your partner.
So where do you start?! Well here are a few ways to go about getting a third partner:
I hope these tips help on your journey to find a third! 😉
Be kind to yourself and get it on!!
Photo credit: Dainis Graveris
As a clinical sexuality coach, Katelyn works with individuals and couples to help them discover their best sex lives.